Saturday, April 2, 2011

Boys & Basketball

So today #11 seed VCU went against #8 seed Butler with Butler taking the win 70-62. Damn shame cuz i was rootin for the hometown heroes. Bartending for that championship game was hopin for that hometown money. Oh well did awesome today.....I swear basketball, no COLLEGE basketball brings out all types....Single dads who got the kids for the weekend and aint lettin that stop the party, to lil old die hard alum, they have got to be the worst. Old, impatient, and entitled. My 3 least characteristics in a person, with old toppin the list!! But seriously i do enjoy big sporting events at work....its the only time my black ass can be as loud as i want with no one looking at me funny. I love being busy in my zone!!!! #Grindin is what i do and i love nothing more!!! Me in my BLACKnGOLD!! 

Now onto these men....lordy!!!! Phone rings 7am this morn and its him, Jay...dieing to reclaim his position in my life. He's so cute, we talked awhile ago for a lil while but he wasnt in a position to be the man i needed so we went our separate ways. Now he's comin up in the world, owns property, car in his name, and a lil money in his pocket and im thinking bout giving him a shot. But now I have no time...i am determined to make myself known this year and as much as i wanna finally let love in and give it a chance, i just cant afford to. Dilemmas!! And meanwhile Im still pining after my highschool sweetheart, Darnell. Who for the life of him will not let me go, we been going back and forth for 9 years and r stuck in limbo right now, he too doesnt wanna b what i need him to be. Notice Im saying need and not want, I need a decent, hardworking, sensitive man. I do not want just anything, my Nana told me a long time ago, You've got to be specific when asking God to send u someone, u cant just ask for a man, cuz thats what he'll send just a man, and i need so much more!! But thats not it, still tryna start something new with Chris!!! What ima do is fall back, take some time out for myself, get this money, stay on my grind and in due time, he i will find!!!

Nite Luvies

VCU gets defeated....Richmond looses its mind,0,7722829.story

Law enforcement officers from several Richmond-area agencies were out in full force Saturday night, after hundreds of disappointed fans poured onto Broad Street following the NCAA Semi-Final loss for the VCU Men's Basketball team.
Crowds had watched the game against Butler University inside of the Stuart C. Siegel Center and after the game ended they made their way in front of the facility lighting fire to t-shirts and shooting off fireworks in the sky.
That's when police officers in SWAT team gear as well as mounted police officers moved in and released what appeared to be tear gas into the crowd - 
The Richmond Police Department would not confirm what kind of police tactics were used to contain the crowd only saying it would speak after the mayhem was under control. A spokesperson for the department also said there were no confirmed reports of injuries, if any, available.
As of 10:35 p.m. a heavy police presence remained on Broad Street and the downtown artery remained closed from Belvidere Street to just past the Siegel Center.

This is some stupid retarded mess. Tear gas, rubber bullets, fires!!! I mean really people, its just basketball and college at that. I could maybe understand if it was football!! Smdh...Richmond has let me down tonight. So glad i thought against goin on that damn campus tonight. WHOO,0,6394912.story

 Outside the house, there are signs all over the yard that this is an extraordinary time in the life of the couple who lives here.

While inside, it's the calm before the Final Four storm.

Maya Smart, the wife of VCU Head Coach Shaka Smart, has a rare moment to put her feet up after flying from city to city on the Ram's historic NCAA run.

And she needs the down time. She told me they're expecting their first child this year.

Maya says she's very excited. She says she's had a chance to get some rest. It's been a mix of excitement and exhaustion.

She says when she met Smart who was an Assistant Coach in Akron, Ohio in 2004 she says she knew he would be successful, but never imagined it would happen this fast.

Maya says she didn't expect this level of success this year. She says it's nice in his 2nd year as head coach he has this opportunity to go this far.

And she's been with him every step of the way since their wedding day in May 2006.

While sports reporters are telling the world about Smart the Coach. I asked Maya about Smart - her husband.

She says he's very compassionate, a very family oriented person. She says he calls his mother every day, something a lot of people don't know about him.

While he builds his coaching career, Maya has a successful career of her own.

The Harvard graduate is an entrepreneur and writer who's been published in major magazines.

As the University begins talks to keep Coach Smart at VCU, they may want to talk to the person he calls "the boss."

Maya jokingly says yes. But then adds V-C-U has been good to them. She says people leave because they think they can't go all the way. She says this is a fantastic place to be and that they're focused on the next step with is winning the whole thing.

And on game days Maya has a good luck routine. She puts on black and gold jewelry, and covers herself in VCU pins. She picks a song on her husband's I-pod to get him pumped up for the opposing team.

Didnt know Coach Smart or Shake Flaka Flame as we like to call him, was married and she a darkie!!! Go head #teamdarkskin

TV.....and why I'd rather drink bleach

Waking up to the sound of a baseball cracking on the side of a bat. too early for my blood...11:31am and I need to be grinding in less than 3 hours!!! Ugh!!!! The life of a bitch tryna do it for herself!! Speaking of ladies doing it for themselves....kinda tired of turning on the TV watching grown ass woman or little girls, who wanna b so much older so much faster than they need to be, getting where they going by stepping on the backs of hard working men. Im all for the old addage "It aint tricking if u got it" But why would u wanna sell urself short and boo its always tricking and here in 2011 its becoming less and less attractive. Men are no longer as stupid as we wish they were.They see exactly what ur doing and theyre playin along....because if u gone let him disrespect u and fuck u when he wanna and all he gotta do is buy u a bag or get ya damn nails done, hell that aint nothing compared to the work he gone have to put in for someone like me. So he'll take the easy route right now, but you'll bore him, u always do. He'll soon realize Keisha and Toya r not where its at and if he wants a healthy successful relationship with another adult he might just have to work a lil harder.

Speaking of Keisha and Toya, who r they u ask. Well Keishas that bitch they casted for Bad Girls Club....all untradined about her shit, just in the streets with respecst for herself or hows shes going about doing things. She fighting, hollerin, smokn mad blunts(with no job of course, living off Tyrone). She got that bad ass lace front, nails done every week, meanwhile her children look like shit and run wild like hooligans. Now Toya is her cuzzin, she aint really no better but she been in the game a lil longer so shes knows a few things. She acts like she has a lil more class, but trusdt she's just as hood. You'll usually find Toya on Basketball Wives or Love & Hip Hop. She mananged to trick someone into believing she  had it, was the one they were lookin for. Nope she tryna trick u off too....

Speaking of Basketball Wives and shows like it....r u fucking serious!?? Love & Hip Hop has to be the worst. These women have no ties to these men, hell Chrissy been wit Jim 6 years, no kids, no rings, bitch name aint even on a bank account!! WTF r u doing ma??? Fab's girl whos names not even important enough to remember, gets no recognition, this nigga had as baby with the broad and still wont acknowledge her or her son, u get paid to be his stylist, they aint no damn child support!! 8 years and that bitch still holdin it. Get a clue mama!!! Olivia....I thought she was a dude, did that not come out like years ago!? So i asint waste my time on her. Somayas....good ole Somaya, as much as i dont fuxx wit her, at least the bitch working....doing things for herself. No nigga in her life, just that sick as body. "Use what u got, to get what u want"  I know thats right!!

I think my problem is i cant get with the reality tv thing....i would seriously rather drink bleach......and I HATE BLEACH!!! Im out in here in the "real world" tryna do shit meanwhile yall on tv scripted like a bitch teasing me like a bitch with a shit i cant have no time soon. Ima get it.....just in my own time. My fav shows deal with shit that hasppen right in ur backyard asnd ur ass aint payin attention. CSI, Law & Order, Criminal Minds......yall better get with it, the world we live in is crazy ans niggas out here tryna shank u. Watch cha back,.....on that note... IM OUT!!!!

Friday, April 1, 2011

....and this was just today

First day of this blogging nonsense.....bear with me please!!! As I roll my third blunt of the day im reliving my day all over again....wishing for tomorrow to come and go. Today was a good money day, 2 bills...I"ll take that. By the way I'm a bartender dreaming to be ur next XXL Eye Candy of the Month. But i definitely saw my fair share of characters today...not only was it April Fools was bring ur mistress to Bdubs day. Had to bear thru that all day. Dudes I see on the regular with their wives and girlfriends came into today booed up with women I've never seen. HMMmmm!!!Aint none of my business, just tip me right and I see no evil....

Today i also started some type of diet....not really sure what my plan is, i just wanna b skinnier....damn phone keeps reminding me to drink water...I'm no damn camel...fall back!!! Was doing so good...didnt eat any wings today which was harder than u think...I'M BLACK!!! But my second meal of the day after breakfast was that damn buffet.....dont know why i did that to myself....2 plates and 3 cups of strawberry ice cream, I already feel defeated!! Aint gonna let nothing get in my way this time. Its only 15 pounds....I can do it right??? did just buya shit of Keebler cookies, probably wasnt my best idea, huh? Raw veggies, fruits and water will be my diet for the next 2 months. The cookies will still b there. The opprotunity to be in every mans thoughts, not so much!!!

U should probably follow me on twitter....ima about to make it big!! @Hellokitty0973 i follow back.
( Y is Wesley Snipes always fucking some Becky in his movies??)

On a lighter note, I have to keep reminding people I am not that bitch who bites her tongue or cares enough about u and what u think not to tell u exactly whats on my mind. GOD gave us all this beautiful thing called free will and with that came along the right to say whatever I like!! If u dont like it......tough shit, dont look my way. Less people I have to talk to everyday.

Nite yall....until tomorrow